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Friends! Groundbreaking news! The United States of America Senate has voted 68-29 to send a bill to the desk of President Barack Obama to sign a bill to make it a federal crime to assault an individual because of his or her sexual orientation or gender identity.  The bill, named after Matthew Shepard, a teenager [...]

I just knew I was not going to like the take on trans people when I had an article entitled My Boyfriend Turned Out To Be A Girl. Seventeen Magazine November 2009 CoverThe piece was forwarded to me by teen lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community activist Ariel Bustamante.

In quick summary, in the Seventeen magazine issue for November, a young adult named Sheri, in an "as told to Jessica Press" article, talks about dating someone who the article describes as a liar -- a female-to-male young trans man who the article proclaimed as really being a "she." The bolded and enlarged segment of the article text, put into a text box in the center of the piece, stated "It felt like my whole first love was a lie."

The thrust of the article, from the article headline to the bolded and highlighted text, seemed to be that female-to-male transsexuals are really females who are deceiving others. This isn't supported by "Sheri"/Jessica Press's use of proper pronouns throughout the piece, but it is accomplished in the headline chosen for the piece, and the highlighted and bolded call-out boxes for the piece.

The gist of the article, from the article headline to the bolded and highlighted text, seemed to be that female-to-male transsexuals are really females who are deceiving others.

Facebook webpage group organizer Ariel Bustamante said this about the article:

Rather than use this opportunity to educate readers about transgender issues, it never once even uses any terminology (well, unless you consider the slur "he-she") but instead furthers the common transphobic assumption that someone who's gender does not match their sex assigned at birth Seventeen Magazine: My Boyfriend Turned Out To Be A Girl (Article Cover)is a deceptive liar and even compares them (at the bottom) to perverts, drug addicts, and older dad's trying to get someone young w/o disclosing their parental/age status.

Please read the article (follow the 1st link) done in poor taste with a terrible accusatory tone from the get-go and write a letter to the editor (mail@seventeen.com) expressing your opinion about the article, the implications it has, and ask them to put put an apology in one of their next 2 issues.

If you do had sent such an e-letter to Seventeen, Ariel sent me the boiler plate response that the letter writers have received back from them to this point:

Hey [Insert Name Here]!

Thank you so much for writing us! We apologize if the article "My Boyfriend Turned Out to Be a Girl" upset or troubled you in any way. Please know that we understand LGBT issues are very sensitive and certainly did not intend to spread misinformation or prejudice. We will definitely take your comments into account and be more careful in the future.

Again, thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.

Here's some recommendations from the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) states in their Media Guide's Transgender Glossary:

[Below the fold: What GLAAD and the Associated Press recommend about reporting on trans people, and the Harsh Realities that many trans youth experience that Seventeen didn't note.]

We also encourage you to ask transgender people which pronoun they would like you to use. Seventeen Magazine: My Boyfriend Turned Out To Be A GirlA person who identifies as a certain gender, whether or not they have taken hormones or had surgery, should be referred to using the pronouns appropriate for that gender.

If it is not possible to ask the person which pronoun he or she prefers, use the pronoun that is consistent with the person's appearance and gender expression. For example, if the person wears a dress and uses the name "Susan," feminine pronouns are appropriate.

The article text doesn't actually say "he actually was a she" -- but the cover page for the article actually does.

The Associated Press Styleguide, billed as "the journalist's bible," says this about how to properly refer to the gender of a trans person:

Use the pronoun preferred by the individuals who have acquired the physical characteristics of the opposite sex or present themselves in a way that does not correspond with their sex at birth.

If that preference is not expressed, use the pronoun consistent with the way the individuals live publicly.

And too, in the same vain of the editorial staff's headlining and graphics for the article misgendered the trans youth in question, the editorial staff choice to highlight the word "lie" in the bolded, highlighted text of the piece. Basically, the editorial staff of Seventeen intentionally misgendered a trans young man, and then intentionally portrayed him as a liar; as a deceiver. This is whs is what the GLAAD Media Guide's Transgender Glossary states about "deceiver" language:

DEFAMATORY TERMINOLOGY

Defamatory: "deceptive," "fooling," "pretending," "posing," or "masquerading"

Gender identity is an integral part of a person's identity. Please do not characterize transgender people as "deceptive," as "fooling" other people, or as "pretending" to be, "posing" or "masquerading" as a man or a woman. Such descriptions are extremely insulting.

Clearly, the editorial staff at Seventeen were more interested in sensationalizing the story in their pages than sticking to journalism norms.

What I'm not saying is that the trans youth in this story -- "Derek" -- was anything but a jerk. If it were me in the same circumstances, I would have at least revealed my trans status to the young woman I was dating as soon as the young woman wanted to become intimate. That "Derek," if he behaved in the way that the article portrayed him as behaving in the story, would actually be that kind of a jerk isn't the point here.

The point is that the Seventeen editor for this story chose to portray female-to-male trans youth as really girls -- and by extension male-to-female trans youth are really boys. In the way the story was presented, it portrayed all trans people as being deceptive liars -- and "lie" is their word, not mine. Trans people, and many others in and out of LGBT community, know that genitalia and the gender markers on identification documents don't always tell the full gender story of an individual.

What the sensationalizing of this Seventeen story does is a recipe for teaching intolerance to trans youth based on gender identity and expression, and this recipe -- when I think about Brandon Teena and Angie Zapata -- is also a recipe for fueling violence against trans people.

Words matter.

Harsh Realities: The Experiences Of Transgender Youth In Our Nation's Public SchoolsSeventeen Magazine had -- and still has -- an opportunity to educate its readership on trans youth. With Ariel Bustamante, I'm calling on Seventeen to apologize for the sensationalizing of this story. I'd go further -- Seventeen owes us a story about trans youth that doesn't sensationalize them as deceivers and liars, but owes their readers about what trans youth go through when they go to schools.

Seventeen can begin their education on trans youth and issues by reading the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network's (GLSEN's) Harsh Realities: The Experiences Of Transgender Youth In Our Nation's Public Schools. On the experience of trans youth in school schools:

• Two-thirds of transgender students felt unsafe in school because of their sexual orientation (69%) and how they expressed their gender (65%).

• Almost all transgender students had been verbally harassed (e.g., called names or threatened) in the past year at school because of their sexual orientation (89%) and gender expression (87%).

• More than half of all transgender students had been physically harassed (e.g., pushed or shoved) in school in the past year because of their sexual orientation (55%) and gender expression (53%).

• More than a quarter of transgender students had been physically assaulted (e.g., punched, kicked or injured with a weapon) in school in the past year because of their sexual orientation (28%) and gender expression (26%).

• Most transgender students (54%) who were victimized in school did not report the events to school authorities. Among those who did report incidents to school personnel, few students (33%) believed that staff addressed the situation effectively.

Seventeen's editor(s), in my opinion, showed transphobia in how they presented this story. They can, and should, do better into the future by trans youth than they did in the November issue.

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Related:
* Harsh Realities For Transgender Students

What a hilarious, brilliant idea.

Christians who believe they'll vanish from Earth in the rapture can now hire an atheist to care for their pets.

For $110, Eternal Earth-Bound Pets offers a 10-year contract guaranteeing that an atheist will adopt the pet that's left behind by its raptured owner. Additional pets can be covered for $15.

Eternal Earth-Bound Pets has guaranteed atheist reps in 22 states (NC is a new addition, as is GA).

We are a group of dedicated animal lovers, and atheists. Each Eternal Earth-Bound Pet representative is a confirmed atheist, and as such will still be here on Earth after you've received your reward.  Our network of animal activists are committed to step in when you step up to Jesus.

You've committed your life to Jesus. You know you're saved.  But when the Rapture comes what's to become of your loving pets who are left behind?   Eternal Earth-Bound Pets takes that burden off your mind.

...Unfortunately at this time we are not equipped to accommodate all species and must  limit our services to dogs, cats, birds, rabbits, and small caged mammals. [Plls. [Please note:  we can now offer rescue services for horses, camels, llamas and donkeys in NH,VT, ID and MT ]

Oh, and if God takes you prior to the Rapture, there's no refund: "In the event of the death of the subscribing pet owner prior to the Rapture the contract will remain in effect. EE-BP will continue to honor the contract for the remainder of the contract period.  We do not adopt / rescue animals except as a result of the Rapture occurance."

More, from the FAQs:

Q: Is this a Joke?
A:  No. This is a serious offer to our Christian friends who believe in the Second Coming and honestly care about the future of their pets after the Rapture occurs.

Q: Do YOU believe in the Rapture.
A: As atheists we do not hold beliefs in the supernatural or a divine being.  Thus, we do not believe in the Rapture.  However, we respect the beliefs of others and are open to the possibility that our perspective could possibly be wrong.

Q: How do you ensure your representatives won't be Raptured.
A: Actually, we don't ensure it, they do.  Each of our representatives has stated to us in writing that they are atheists, do not believe in God / Jesus, and that they have blasphemed in accordance with Mark 3:29, negating any chance of salvation.

Well I hope that acceptably-blaspheming owner Bart Centre receives some endorsements from Focus On the Family, the Family Research Council, and Pat Robertson and friends, who have membership lists full of true believers in the Rapture that will benefit greatly from this service.


I have been suggesting that Stand for Marriage Maine has been misappropriating donors' funds. Payments have been made to seemingly non-existent companies and donations reported by other groups do not end up as reported receipts by SFMM.

SFMM has made three payments of $12,500 each to a company called CD Inc, PO Box 1877, Alexandria, VA 22313. $37,500 for "Web Development." Web Development could mean several different things but, ordinarily, it means website development. In this case, SFMM has a run of the mill Wordpress website.Today, SFMM is reporting another payment to CD Inc. This time in the amount of $28,750 and this time for "Expanded Ad Buy." Igt;." It is a total of $56,250 going to a company for seemingly unrelated purposes. But it gets worse.

Not only does this vendor seem to exist at a PO Box but it does not seem to have a listed telephone number. Does it exist at all?

NOM LogoSFMM is controlled in many ways by their largest donor, National Organization for Marriage. NOM's executive director, Brian Brown is an officer of SFMM. SFMM is using all of NOM's vendors from the Prop 8 campaign. It's more than just Schubert Flint Public Affairs and Criswell Advertising. Just the other day, for example, it was NOM's lawyer who responded to NPR's copyright infringement complaint. NOM is also suing the state of Maine to prevent their compliance with campaign disclosure laws,

NOM's 2007  tax return has a rather odd item; a $166,000 payment to an organization known as Common Sense America at a PO Box in Princeton, NJ. It turns out that Common Sense America;

  1. Is located at NOM's address in Princeton and;
  2. Is not a ploitical consultant and;
  3. Is led by the same Brian Brown who is NOM's executive director.

Maggie GallagherThe president of National Organization for Marriage, Maggie Gallagher, is no stranger to financial impropriety. In 2005, Howard Kurtz of the Washington Post found that Gallagher had received tens of thousands of dollars from the Department of Health and Human Services during 2002 and 2003 for promoting the Bush Administration's "healthy marriage" initiative. During this time, Gallagher testified before Congress in favor of "healthy marriage" programs, but never disclosed the payments.


Undoubtedly, I will have more on this over the weekend. Final campaign reports are due today.


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We are 11 days away from the November Election. The Portland, Maine office is humming with volunteer activity. Every day, volunteers drop off food provisions for all the other volunteers. The first day we had homemade chili, yesterday egg salad sandwiches, and this morning someone brought in some carrots from their own yard. Mainers are chipping in any way they can. My time has been spent in the office working in the communications department while Travis Prinslow and Meleanie Altaras have been adopted into the Data and Campus Outreach departments. We work 9 to 9, when we're lucky and have been working on a variety of projects. From confirming volunteers, to getting people to vote early and in person volunteer recruitment. The amount of work that goes into a campaign is astounding. You walk into any office and you hear typing, people on the phone, stapling, paper shuffling and people being directed. It's a small preview of what Oregon will be dealing with soon enough. However, Oregon's fight will be much larger-- Maine's population is a third the size of Oregon's. I'm grateful that Basic Rights Oregon is starting early and getting all our ducks in a row before we enter our own fight. Maine's latest YouTube celebrity goes by the name of Phillip Spooner. Mr. Spooner is 85 years old, a WWII vet, and a lifelong republicanâ€"he is also in favor of marriage equality. Click here to watch his testimony in April during the Marriage hearings. His video has officially gone viral, with close to 500,000 views. Mainers are excited to have someone like Mr. Spooner speaking up for equality, so much so that he has unofficially become the face of the campaign. Click here to watch a segment of Mr. Spooner being interviewed about his views on Marriage Equality. The opposition is using children to scare voters into voting against equality. They are running ads claiming that "gay sex education" will be taught in schools. Fortunately, the Maine campaign has been very diligent about countering their ads and has caused a stir by featuring a French catholic woman who supports her son's right to get married. Yolande Dumont is also a Maine celebrity and has inspired Catholics and other religious denominations to come out and support the No on 1 campaign. Of course the Catholic DIoces is bankrolling the opposition's campaign along with National Organization marriage and Shubert Flint of prop 8 fame. When Yolande first came on the airwaves the Catholic Diocese was up in arms and started to spend resources countering Yolande's message. This is exciting because the opposition is now on the defensive. Not only do they have to counter multiple legislators, and educators on the whole "Teaching gay in Schools" issue, now they have to make sure that other fair minded Catholics reject Yolande's message. If the No on 1 Campaign wins on Election Day it will be a model on how to defeat the oppositions' vitriol and lies. Although, Maine is literally the farthest place from Oregon in the country, their efforts will have a huge impact on our work. They need all the help they can get. If you have not donated to the NO on 1 campaign you can do so by clicking here. If you cannot afford a donation but have some extra time on your hands you can phone bank from Oregon with their Call for Equality Program sign up here. I'm going to get back to work now but feel free to shoot me an email if you have any questions about getting involved in the Maine campaign. In solidarity, Alejandro Juarez Communications Coordinator Basic Rights Oregon (503) 222-6151 x 105 alejandro@basicrights.org
“You Have Always Been Welcome Here” here Presented by PFLAG Pendleton in cooperation with Communities of Welcoming Congregations & The Drama Queens    -   “You Have Always Been Welcome Here” portrays the lives of four transgender people as they explore their relationships to family, gender, Christianity and spirituality.   Rev. Tara Wilkins, executive director of Community of Welcoming [...]
The play is called Stop Kiss and the description is as follows:This alternately tender and tense love story highlights the power of love to withstand the demons of hate and prejudice. After a dangerous public "outing," the deepening friendship between two women grows into a courageous declaration of love... The benefit performance will be held on October 20, at 7:30 at Pentacle Theater, which is set in a lovely woodland just west of Salem. The performances there are usually excellent. The cost is $20 per ticket. Proceeds benefit the Polk County Democrats. If anyone is interested in buying tickets, they can contact Lisanne Pearcy at 503-838-2500.

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