Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Combined Gay News Headlines (T5T-1)

Sure, you probably would've gotten more use out of Dustin Lance Black's sex tape if the video footage was ever released, but won't you try out a husband-wife-friend three-way starring Eric Dane-Rebecca Gayheart-Kari Ann Peniche (she's an ex-Miss Teen USA) in a sex tape? CONTINUED » Permalink | 5 comments | Add to del.icio.us Tagged: Celebs, Eric Dane, [...]
Some newspapers might be siding with Equality California over its call to wait till 2012 for a Prop 8 repeal (and urging the Courage Campaign to also heed the advice), some nagging questions remain over Geoff Kors' non-profit. Namely: Was EQCA collecting more than a million dollars from supporters by telling them they were going [...]
OH SNAP — Because the waters of Portofino, Italy, have something that just attracts the A-list set, Madonna had no choice but to join Jesus Luz and kids David and Mercy on a boat cruise. What do you mean this was a photo op? CONTINUED » CONTINUED » Permalink | 4 comments | Add to del.icio.us Tagged: Jesus Luz, [...]
Missed out on INTEGRATION and our new Go-Go boys last night? Check out the pics to get caught up:
Laughs,  more laughs, and louder laughs is all that could be heard if you just happened to be walking by The Starline in the historic Tower District in Fresno, Ca. yesterday evening.  Amy Tee, a rising comedian from the New England area, delighted adoring fans as they heard her stand up comedy show, filled with [...]
I received this letter from David Axelrod, Senior Advisor to President Obama.  Per his request, I am forwarding (or postinr posting it on this blog) to kindly inform you of an important issue the Obama Administration is currently undertaking:  health insurance reform. Please read and contact The White House or your congressional elected officials for more information. -Enrique       Dear Friend,This is [...]
This is awesome!  Someone over at SLOG posted a video from the YouTube channel Trannystar Galactica.  This is the first I've heard of it - transfolk fielding questions, talking about their lives, and being incredibly adorable.  Here are a few videos I liked (Leith & Les, you're awesome!).

What a refreshing find after reading Autumn's story about Conan O'Brien.

Oh btw, can't help but notice that some of the people posting videos at TG self identify as trannys (or trannies).  This seems reminiscent of some LGBTs who identify as queer in that some folks in a community like a reclaimed label and some folks don't.  Same in the trans community with tranny it seems. Just as queer and LGBT aren't interchangeable terms within our broader community, neither are transgender and tranny within the trans community.  Everybody has their favorite label (or lack thereof).  In fact, I think there was a TG video on that very subject...  

Anyways, take it away Leith & Les!

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I am very proud of my hometown tonight after attending the Durham (NC) City Council meeting where a r>resolution supporting civil marriage equality for same-sex couples was passed unanimously. Mayor Bill Bell and council members affirmed marriage equality. While NC does not allow gay and lesbian couples to marry, it is heartening to have the support of the Bull City (our state legislature has also turned away, for the sixth time, a state marriage amendment).

When I entered the council chambers to sign up to speak (around 6:20, with the meeting to begin at 7PM), it was already filling up. I gave a hug to Mayor Bell, who has known me since I was a little p-a-m. He apparently keeps up with the "trouble" I get into on the Blend and in The Durham News. I was also greeted and hugged by Mike Woodard, who frequently marches in the Pride Parade with the allies and "family" Old West Durham peeps (even though neither of us live in the neighborhood these days).

I sat down in the second row. After several proclamations and bits of business it came to the main agenda items of the night. It was clear this was a big meeting for two reasons -- the resolution and a matter concerning the city's recycling vendor contract. I'm sorry to say that I was not up to date on the latter issue, but after an excruciating hour of debate that shed little light (at least to me) on what the outcome was, it was time for the resolution.

The council decided to move on the issue, meaning no debate was needed. All but one of those who signed up to speak was in favor of the equality resolution. One woman in my row (well-known local homophobe and failed political candidate Victoria Peterson) jumped to her feet to object (about 4:30 in) "Excuse me, I'd like to speak." Mayor Bell firmly, but politely told her "I'm running the meeting" and said they were ready to move the item and vote. And they did -- and there was a standing ovation (4:48).

Notice the racial divide -- who was standing and who remained seated. It's too bad that I was unable to get up to speak. That's for another day...I'll take this opportunity to announce that I've been asked to be the keynote speaker at NC Pride this year. The parade, which weaves in OWD next to Duke's East Campus, ends with the keynote and other guests. It . It will be a good opportunity to celebrate the victories -- and address this sad divide in understanding.

The full resolution is below the fold.


The full text:

A RESOLUTION IN SUPPORT OF CIVIL MARRIAGE FOR SAME-SEX COUPLES

WHEREAS, The Election Day victories by anti-gay activists in California, Florida, Arizona and Arkansas were a painful reminder that the gay rights movement still faces many challenges; and

WHEREAS, discriminatory marriage laws in the United States deprive same-sex couples of over 1000 federal rights and benefits automatically bestowed by civil marriage including, among others, health care coverage, tax benefits, divorce, domestic violence protections, privileges under immigration and naturalization law, inheritance rights, survivor benefits and child custody; and

WHEREAS, the denial of such benefits has been demonstrated to have significant psychological and social impact on the physical, social, and economic well-being of gay and lesbian couples and their families; and

WHEREAS, the U.S. Supreme Court recognizes marriage as one of the basic civil rights fundamental to our very existence and survival and

WHEREAS, heterosexual relationships have a legal framework for their existence through civil marriage, which provides a stabilizing force. In the United States, with the exception of Massachusetts and Connecticut, same-sex couples are currently denied the important legal benefits, rights and responsibilities of civil marriage. Same-sex couples therefore experience several kinds of state sanctioned discrimination that can adversely affect the stability of their relationships and their mental health; and'

WHEREAS, the love that brings and binds two people of the same, or opposite sex, together transcends gender; and

WHEREAS, as Americans, we must remember a foundational principle of our form of government: all are created equal. Consistent with the pursuit of liberty and justice for all, same-sex couples should have full and equal access to the rights and responsibilities bestowed by civil marriage; and

NOW THEREFORE BE IT RESOLVED that civil marriage for same-sex couples must include all the benefits commonly bestowed upon opposite-sex couples, including, among other rights, healthcare coverage and related decision-making, privileges under immigration and naturalization law, survivor benefits, inheritance rights, and child custody.

BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED, that the City of Durham, endorse and support the rights of same-sex couples to share fully and equally in the rights, responsibilities and commitments of civil marriage.

Thank you Mayor Bell and the members of the Durham City Council for affirming that separate is not equal and that the Bull City supports diversity.

William V. "Mayor Bill Bell
Mayor
Phone: (919) 560-43 33 ext. 10269
Bill.Bell@durhamnc.gov

Mayor Pro Tem
Cora Cole-McFadden
City Council Member (Ward 1)
Phone: (919) 560-4396 ext. 10277
Cora.Cole-McFadden@durhamnc.gov

Farad Ali
City Council Member (At-Large)
Phone: 560-4396, ext. 10273
E-mail: farad.ali@durhamnc.gov

Eugene A. Brown
City Council member (At-Large)
Phone: (919) 688-9314
Eugene.Brown@durhamnc.gov

Diane Catotti
City Council member (At-Large)
Phone: (919) 560-4396 ext. 10278
diane.catotti@durhamnc.gov

Howard Clement, III
City Council member (Ward 2)
Phone: (919) 560-4396, ext. 10272
Howard.Clement@durhamnc.gov

Mike Woodard
City Council Member (Ward 3)
Phone: (919) 560-4396-4396 ext. 10276
Email: mike.woodard@durhamnc.gov


Crossposted with permission from the glaadBLOG.
~~Autumn Sandeen~~

Tonight Show Makes Tired Transgender Jokes

by Jonathan Rosales, GLAAD's Entertainment Media Manager

Tonight Show Makes Tired Transgender JokesOn last Thursday's episode of The Tonight Show, host Conan O'Brien repeated his "Conan's Tabloid Moment" segment and used the skit to make easy and unfunny jokes at the expense of the transgender community.

"Conan's Tabloid Moment" typically involves O'Brien staging scandalous tabloid photos with the (false) intent of selling them to magazines to make a profit. In Thursdays segment, O'Brien began by posing at a strip club after a few drinks then wondered how to make the situation even more embarrassing for himself. At this point, a neon sign reading "Trannie's" appears and the female strippers slap on fake mustaches.

Conan O'Brien has shown in the past that he is a comedian capable of making gay-themed jokes without resorting to cheap laughs and offensive slurs. This was most recently on display when he made fun of NBC's Failing grade in the GLAAD Network Responsibility Index. Unfortunately, sensitivity to transgender issues is an area in which many comics frequently fall short. Not only is the term "tranny" offensive to the transgender community, the representation of transgender women as mustached men in dresses is a harmful misrepresentation.

GLAAD has reached out to NBC and is hoping to have an update to this issue soon.

Q-Power is the political youth  group of Basic Rights Oregon and is working on some exciting projects this summer. Most recently the group has launched their ‘Coming Out’ video series that emphasizes the importance of coming out as both a personal and political act. Check out their ‘coming out’ videos on Youtube and get engaged!
In honor of Gay Pride, honor yourself and/or your loved ones and find out the latest on HIV prevention! Come join HIV Alliance for an important community panel discussion on HIV prevention amongst gay and bi men with speakers including an Infectious Disease Specialist, a local licensed psychologist working with gay and bi men [...]

Please join the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR) and Basic Rights Oregon (BRO) For a weekend of intimate events in Portland,featuring Kate Kendell, Esq., NCLR Executive Director and Jeana Frazzini, BRO Executive Director

The State of Our Unions: LGBT Legal & Policy Briefing Saturday, September 12, 2009 3:00 pm â€" 5:00 pm

Flying Cat Coffee Company 3041 SE Division Portland, Oregon

The legal landscape for LGBT people is ever-changing, and this year, that has proved to be especially true! With new victories and defeats occurring at a faster pace than ever, it’s hard to ke faster pace than ever, it’s hard to keep track of where our struggle for justice stands, and how and where our relationships are protected. Join us for a presentation and discussion on the latest legal and policy issues affecting the LGBT community, including an update on moving forward with marriage equality in Oregon and other states and federal legislation and litigation. There is no cost to attend. No RSVP necessary.

A Social for Social Justice: Benefit Party with NCLR and BRO Sunday, September 13, 2009 3:00 pm â€" 5:00 pm

Nostrana Restaurant With award-winning Chef Cathy Whims 1401 SE Morrison Street Portland, Oregon So much has happened over this past year â€" we hope you can join us for a fun and intimate afternoon to catch up with NCLR and BRO and find out more about our current work and what lies ahead in the fight for our LGBT civil and human rights. Suggested Donation: $25, payable at the door. Please RSVP by September 4th to Dena Zaldúa-Hilkene at dzalduahilkene@nclrights.org with subject line “NCLR Portland Event” or call 415.365.1303. Reservations will be held at the door.


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