Friday, February 6, 2009

Combined Gay News Headlines (T5T-1)

A bill that would allow Wyoming to ignore gay marriages performed in other states died in committee, with 25 ayes and 35 noes. [Petrelis Files] © japhy for Queerty, 2009. | Permalink | No comment | Add to del.icio.us Post tags: marriage equality, Wyoming Feed enhanced by Better Feed from Ozh
"Fred Davie, the openly gay president of Public/Private Ventures, has been named to serve on President Barack Obama’s Policy Council on Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships. Davie will work to provide objective, nonpartisan advice to the president on a variety of public policy matters, including strategies to increase the effectiveness of social services delivered by community [...]
OH SNAP — Milk director Gus Van Sant and star Sean Penn appear in Vanity Fair's Oscar issue, which pairs directors with their stars.(...)Read the rest of Vanity Fair Hopes You Aren't Bored With These 2 Yet (45 words) © david for Queerty, 2009. | Permalink | One comment | Add to del.icio.us Post tags: Gus Van Sant, Milk, Oh Snap, [...]
Come out and hear an inspiring figure in the gay rights movement and help out our gay youth in their fund-raising efforts. PeoplPeople ask what they can do for their community….here’s a perfect opportunity. Cleve Jones to give the keynote address at the Expression Not Suppression: Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Conference on Saturday, February 7, 2009 at [...]
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From the Courage Campaign....

Note from Pam: the Vimeo video has had a hard time loading. Here is one on YouTube from the Courage Campaign. The original one is below the fold.

Follow this link to sign the petition...

http://www.couragecampaign.org...

"Fidelity": Don't Divorce... from Courage Campaign on Vimeo.

Do you remember Joycelyn Elders, the first black U.S. surgeon general, who served during the Clinton administration and stepped into a steaming pile of American Victorianism in regards to sexuality and safer sex? She was given the boot resigned after a brief 15 months:
In 1994, she became a lightning rod for criticism after she said schools should consider teaching masturbation to students as a means to prevent sexually transmitted diseases.

..."If I had to do it all over again today, I would do it the same way," she told CNN in a recent interview. "I felt I did it right the first time. I told someone, 'I went to Washington feeling like prime steak, and I left feeling like low-grade hamburger,' " she said.

...As surgeon general, she advocated universal health care and comprehensive health and sex education, but some of her comments -- such as her remarks about masturbation -- enraged conservatives.

"Our country talked about masturbation more in December of 1994 than they ever have in the history of the country, and you know, people would think you'd be embarrassed about that," Elders told CNN in 1996. "I'm not embarrassed about that."

The 72-year-old Elders would receive just as poor a reception in 2009 from the folks at the Passion for Christ Movement which, along with Dr. Ty @ DaSouth.com, is engaging in a holy war over spanking the monkey, focusing on young people of color.
Yes, I said it, in fact, I'll say it again, MASTURBATION! I figure if a few thousand of the millions here on Myspace can expose their breast, proposition you for sex, have degrading music, and nakedness can have the audacity to request me as a friend , then I can say MASTURBATION and tell the truth about it! And given that many of you are doing it or have, let's talk about it. Since the majority of us have at least a 3rd grade education, I'll begin by defining what it is.

I have heard it said by many, especially by "Christians", that masturbation is not sex and even if you don't have a third grade education, you can clearly see that masturbation is sex. But many like to use that as an excuse to do it so that they can get a little sex without going "all the way". But whether you have sexual intercourse or sexually manipulate your own genitals to achieve an orgasm, you are having sex. The reason why you masturbate is to achieve an orgasm. And an orgasm is the culmination, the climax of any sexual act, whether it's with a partner(s) or sex with yourself. And that's exactly what masturbation is, solo sex.

...Trust me, I've been there, and I'd rather have cold, dry sheets than to fondle my self. Two things I've come to know about masturbation is this:

1. It brings shame, and...
2. It is addictive

Most people who have engaged in masturbation know that the culmination of this sexual act ends in shame. I don't have to share with you the thousands of emails of the admittance of this shame because you know all too well since you have experienced it yourself. Curled up in a fetal position, crying, because your bed is even more empty and you're lonelier than you did before you violated yourself...Because God never created sex so that you could gratify yourself. The dictionary defined masturbation as self abuse...the miss use of yourself. The mistreatment, the manipulation, the exploitation of YOU.

TMI. While this is hysterically bizarre, the sad truth is that, with the unprecedented spread of HIV/AIDS in minority communities, a pious drumbeat to demonize a form of sexual expression that represents safe sex, doesn't involve the possibility of an unintended pregnancy, and no one gives a rip about if done in private is the last thing young POC need to hear.

More below the fold.
All I hear in this article's message is that one's body is being defiled, abused and that the act of self-pleasure is a sexual disorder. The article denies that we are sexual beings capable of self-control. One reader called it out.

Honestly
written by Guapo, February 05, 2009

this article is absurd and bordering on the verge of criminal. When we hit a certain age especially in the male biology the urge for sex is one of the largest driving forces in our brains because of every species need to successfully reproduce thus having our genes pass to an other generation. On a biological level this is basically the ultimate goal of life. Obviously in the world we live in, promiscuous sex is not only frowned upon by many theological cultures but a hazard to ones health in the face of many sexually transmitted diseases. So abstinence until marriage is an easy safety measure to prevent the spread of these fatal diseases.

Masturbation is a tool to suppress these urges and is used to help with a variety of mental illnesses such as depression and anxiety. To not just control this impulse, which like any form of pleasure should be controlled, but to completely subjugate our sexual desires is sheer insanity. This article states that the act of masturbation is completely unnatural and we should be ashamed of engaging in it. This shame is not brought about by our own moral spectrum but by the religious fear of angering some omnipotent being who watches and tallies every single transgression against some law that was prophesied by people who lived thousands of years ago. Please whether we admit it or not we are sexual beings and to ignore this fact until the day of your wedding will be harmful to your own personal development as a human being.

Some of the other comments at DaSouth.com are quite revelatory -- you see the gulf and struggle between conservative religious views about sex and reality-based thinking regarding sexual health. If nothing else, this article has stimulated a discussion about a topic that is as much a third rail topic today as it was when Dr. Joycelyn Elders tried to educate the public about the matter.  These folks need to get their heads out of the sand. Dr. Elders, you're needed on the intertubes pronto.

H/t, Jesus' General.

(UPDATE: Reactions are coming in; they are below the fold.)

UPDATE (2/6): Obama names out gay man to faith-based and neighborhood partnership council.

Fred Davie, the openly gay president of Public/Private Ventures, has been named to serve on President Barack Obama's Policy Council on Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships. Davie will work to provide objective, nonpartisan advice to the president on a variety of public policy matters, including strategies to increase the effectiveness of social services delivered by community and faith-based organizations.

Here we go -- the President has just released his plans for the Office of Faith-based and Neighborhood Partnerships.  The main bone of contention here (aside from whether the government should be doing this at all, that's a different topic), is how faith-based discrimination in hiring and firing is going to be handled, since there are no federal protections for LGBTs. This was the response during the campaign:
In answer to a reporter's question, Obama said federal anti-discrimination laws do not cover discrimination based on sexual orientation. But Obama said he believes local laws in some states prohibiting discrimination against gays would apply to faith-based social programs funded with federal money in those states.
Well, that doesn't do those of us in states where there are no protections, and the Obama administration knows that.

I have received the White House press release on the announcement, and look at the vague language regarding equal protection:

As the priorities of this Office are carried out, it will be done in a way that upholds the Constitution - by ensuring that both existing programs and new proposals are consistent with American laws and values. The separation of church and state is a principle President Obama supports firmly - not only because it protects our democracy, but also because it protects the plurality of America's religious and civic life. The Executive Order President Obama will sign today strengthens this by adding a new mechanism for the Executive Director of the Office to work through the White House Counsel to seek the advice of the Attorney General on difficult legal and constitutional issues.
Another major issue for the LGBT community has been the prospect of anti-gay orgs using tax dollars to proselytize or provide services that are detrimental to the community.  Back in July of last year when Obama proposed the program, Obama's Director of the LGBT Vote, Dave Noble, told the Blend that "under no circumstances will funds from the program will be granted to FBOs for proselytizing or reparative therapy."

As I said back at the time, since Barack Obama cannot change federal law himself, at the very least a public statement announcing that Council for Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships in hand with his intention to firmly back a swift passage of an inclusive ENDA is called for. It would then highlight the injustices that a program like this illuminates. It would also signal to all FBOs seeking federal funds that the days of legal discrimination in hiring because of sexual orientation and gender identity/expression are coming to a close.

Of course the announcement mentions none of this. The full release from the White House is below the fold.  

THE WHITE HOUSE
Office of the Press Secretary
For Immediate Release  February 5, 2009

Obama Announces White House Office of Faith-based and Neighborhood Partnerships

Washington (February 5, 2009) - President Barack Obama today signed an executive order establishing the new White House Office of Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships. The White House Office of Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships will work on behalf of Americans committed to improving their communities, no matter their religious or political beliefs.

"Over the past few days and weeks, there has been much talk about what our government's role should be during this period of economic emergency. That is as it should be - because there is much that government can and must do to help people in need," said President Obama. "But no matter how much money we invest or how sensibly we design our policies, the change that Americans are looking for will not come from government alone. There is a force for good greater than government. It is an expression of faith, this yearning to give back, this hungering for a purpose larger than our own, that reveals itself not simply in places of worship, but in senior centers and shelters, schools and hospitals, and any place an American decides."

The White House Office for Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships will be a resource for nonprofits and community organizations, both secular and faith based, looking for ways to make a bigger impact in their communities, learn their obligations under the law, cut through red tape, and make the most of what the federal government has to offer.

President Obama appointed Joshua DuBois, a former associate pastor and advisor to the President in his U.S. Senate office and campaign Director of Religious Affairs, to lead this office. "Joshua understands the issues at stake, knows the people involved, and will be able to bring everyone together - from both the secular and faith-based communities, from academia and politics - around our common goals," said President Obama.

The Office of Faith Based and Neighborhood Partnerships will focus on four key priorities, to be carried out by working closely with the President's Cabinet Secretaries and each of the eleven agency offices for faith-based and neighborhood partnerships:

   * The Office's top priority will be making community groups an integral part of our economic recovery and poverty a burden fewer have to bear when recovery is complete.
   * It will be one voice among several in the administration that will look at how we support women and children, address teenage pregnancy, and reduce the need for abortion.
   * The Office will strive to support fathers who stand by their families, which involves working to get young men off the streets and into well-paying jobs, and encouraging responsible fatherhood.
   * Finally, beyond American shores this Office will work with the National Security Council to foster interfaith dialogue with leaders and scholars around the world.

As the priorities of this Office are carried out, it will be done in a way that upholds the Constitution - by ensuring that both existing programs and new proposals are consistent with American laws and values. The separation of church and state is a principle President Obama supports firmly - not only because it protects our democracy, but also because it protects the plurality of America's religious and civic life. The Executive Order President Obama will sign today strengthens this by adding a new mechanism for the Executive Director of the Office to work through the White House Counsel to seek the advice of the Attorney General on difficult legal and constitutional issues.

The Office of Faith Based and Neighborhood Partnerships will include a new President's Advisory Council on Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships, composed of religious and secular leaders and scholars from different backgrounds. There will be 25 members of the Council, appointed to 1-year terms.

Members of the Council include:

Judith N. Vredenburgh, President and Chief Executive Officer, Big Brothers / Big Sisters of America
Philadelphia, PA

Rabbi David N. Saperstein, Director & Counsel, Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism, and noted church/state expert
Washington, DC

Dr. Frank S. Page, President emeritus, Southern Baptist Convention
Taylors, SC

Father Larry J. Snyder, President, Catholic Charities USA
Alexandria, VA

Rev. Otis Moss, Jr., Pastor emeritus, Olivet Institutional Baptist Church
Cleveland, OH

Eboo S. Patel, Founder & Executive Director, Interfaith Youth Corps
Chicago, IL

Fred Davie, President, Public / Private Ventures, a secular non-profit intermediary
New York, NY

Dr. William J. Shaw, President, National Baptist Convention, USA
Philadelphia, PA

Melissa Rogers, Director, Wake Forest School of Divinity Center for Religion and Public Affairs and expert on church/state issues
Winston-Salem, NC

Pastor Joel C. Hunter, Senior Pastor, Northland, a Church Distributed
Lakeland, FL

Dr. Arturo Chavez, Ph.D., President & CEO, Mexican American Cultural Center
San Antonio, TX

Rev. Jim Wallis, President & Executive Director, Sojourners
Washington, DC

Bishop Vashti M. McKenzie, Presiding Bishop, 13th Episcopal District, African Methodist Episcopal Church
Knoxville, TN

Diane Baillargeon, President & CEO, Seedco, a secular national operating intermediary
New York, NY

Richard Stearns, President, World Vision
Bellevue, WA

I don't know anything about most of the folks on the above list, but as you can see, the anti-gay Southern Baptist Convention is represented.

So, instead of the usual griping, what is politically feasible to address the obvious legal issues and conflicts since there aren't federal protections in place for LGBT citizens? Religious freedom is protected, and thus discrimination on that basis is legal. The Obama administration will face challenges over state and local laws that do have anti-discrimination laws on the books.

There's also the matter of hair-splitting -- so Fundie Church ABC, which also has an ex-gay therapy program, will it be able to receive fed funds to run a soup kitchen? What oversight will protect our tax dollars from being spent to help pray-away-the gay instead of potatoes for the pot of soup? What financial disclosure will occur? There are a lot of questions and land mines ahead.

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UPDATE: Reaction is coming in...

People for the American Way's President, Kathryn Kolbert :

"During the campaign, President Obama made clear that religious organizations that receive federal money should not discriminate.  We strongly support that principle, but it's disappointing that today President Obama has missed an opportunity to put it into practice immediately.

"It's not about left or right: it's about upholding the Constitution.  If churches accept federal funds, it's deeply inappropriate for them to discriminate on the basis of religion in their hiring.  It's unconstitutional for federal money to support programs that only benefit those who profess a particular faith.  

"President Obama needs to make good on his campaign promise that tax dollars aren't used to unconstitutionally discriminate on the basis of religion.  Too often, religious discrimination is used as a proxy for discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, race, and gender.  People For is committed to ensuring justice and equality for all, and I look forward to working with the Obama Administration to correct this problem."

Dan at Street Prophets:
he conclusion, unfortunately, is that we have no earthly idea what Obama's going to do about the discrimination rules. He says he's opposed to discrimination, and he's typically a man of his word on such matters. But there are lots of other signs that say otherwise. I'm willing to bet the fudge factor is intentional and we'll be seeing lots of ambiguity as COFANP develops.
ACLU:
"President Obama launched his faith-based initiative today by heading into uncharted and dangerous waters," said Caroline Fredrickson, Director of the ACLU Washington Legislative Office. "What we are seeing today is significant - a president giving his favored clergy a governmental stamp of approval. There is no historical precedent for presidential meddling in religion - or religious leaders meddling in federal policy - through a formal government advisory committee made up mostly of the president's chosen religious leaders."

Today's announcement included the appointment of 25 members of a government advisory committee that will be dominated by religious leaders. The mission of the government committee will be to advise the president and the White House faith-based office on how to distribute federal dollars, and also advise on a range of other issues such as AIDS and women's reproductive health care. Although former President George W. Bush gave prominence to his faith-based initiative and informally consulted with individual religious leaders, even he never formed a government advisory committee made up primarily of clergy.

Although the president restated today his earlier campaign commitment to end the discriminatory hiring practices of government-funded religious groups that President Bush allowed, he deferred changing the rules. As a result, potentially hundreds of billions of dollars of new federal spending in the economic stimulus package now before the Senate could be distributed under the existing rules that allow discrimination in hiring in federally-funded programs.

"President Obama has put the cart before the horse," said Christopher Anders, ACLU Senior Legislative Counsel. "He is expanding the Bush administration's faith-based initiative without putting the most important safeguards in place. The president has created a more powerful office with a greater ability to shovel federal taxpayer dollars to religious groups, but civil rights protections are being deferred for later study and decisions. With the president likely to soon have additional hundreds of billions of economic stimulus dollars at his disposal, he should have abolished the discriminatory rules of his predecessor before greasing the way for more federal funds going to religious groups."

UPDATE 2: Sarah Posner at Tapped broke this last night. You can also read her follow up reporting here. A snippet:
Americans United for the Separation of Church and State is calling on Obama to rescind the Bush executive order on employment discrimination. Its executive director, Barry Lynn, says, "It's disappointing to see President Obama beginning to roll out his faith-based program without immediately putting in place civil rights and civil liberties safeguards. It's wrong to expand a program without first fixing the policies that promoted job discrimination, forced religion on vulnerable people and became mired in partisan politics."

But a source identified only as a "religious leader knowledgeable of the plans for the revamped office" told the AP: "You can do a lot of things without rescinding those orders. That's not a necessary step to make changes." The Rev. Samuel Rodriguez, president of the National Hispanic Christian Leadership Conference, and another evangelical member of the CLURT coalition which says it is working to defuse the "culture wars," told the AP: "I believe it's not practical and it's not going to happen - and the president knows the backlash from the faith community would be egregious . . . . To push the envelope on that, to say, for example, 'You're going to have to hire gays and lesbians' ... that would be unprecedented."

Meaning - discrimination will be allowed because ENDA isn't in place -- and obviously the prospect of supporting ENDA in this context was so frightening it (or the related discrimination) couldn't even be named in the press release. Feel the tread marks?

Related:
* Obama campaign is unclear on gays and faith-based funds (GPC, July 18, 2008)
* Blend exclusive: Obama faith-based initiative plan will bar reparative therapy, proselytizing
* Eight questions on Obama and "Faith Based Initiatives".

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